Effects on bad relationships between husband and wife or parents with children will first lead to mental illness. People who suffer from mental illness find it hard to get close to others and often have difficulty trusting them. Besides, becoming repeatedly involved in unhealthy relationships can cause chemical changes in mind and body, regardless adult or children, which drains one’s energy and finally leading to more physical and mental problems.
When a person suffers from bad relationship with family, the telltale signs are increasing frustration, growing feelings of emptiness, getting too emotional, and feeling suicidal. Women going through relationship problems are more prone to express their emotions by showing sadness, depression, or crying all the time. On the other hand, men usually show emotional pain in different ways, either they buried it deep down inside their hearts or they show it by emotionally or physically abuse to others. Children who are facing relationship problems with their family usually are quieter and do not like to get socialize. Sometimes they tend to show their feelings by torturing others or even themselves.
In addition, bad relationship often turns a person unwittingly caught in low self-esteem, continuously blaming themselves or others. They will starting to have inability to concentrate, difficulty with making decisions, unnecessary worry and anxiety, compelling emotions and mood swings, loss of self-confidence, etc. In short, they just wallowing in sadness and do not have rational way of thinking. These effects will then lead to physical problems.
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Thursday, October 7, 2010
Bad husband and wife relationship News-Habitual wife beater kills wife
ONE INUSAH Yakubu, a resident of Tensungo, a suburb of Bawku in the Upper East Region, has allegedly beaten his 30-year-old wife, Hamida Abdullai to death.
According to a source close to the family, a quarrel ensued between the couple last Thursday, which resulted in the husband beating the wife into unconsciousness, as a result of which she was rushed to the Bawku Hospital, where she died.
The father of the deceased, Mr. Abdullai Khasim, told our source that INUSAH Yakubu, who has since gone into hiding, has persistently been beating his wife, compelling her to sometimes run away to her family house.
According to some residents of Tensungo, during the latest incident, they heard the cry of the woman but felt reluctant to go to her rescue, because they were fed up with the continuous beating of the wife by the man.
They said anytime they rescued the woman and advised the man to stop his barbaric act, he would not listen to them.
The neighbours only went to the scene when the wailing and screaming of the woman increased and heightened, but their presence was rather too late.
According to some residents, the cause of the scuffle was the man’s alleged accusation that the wife had stolen his money.
The body of the deceased has since been deposited at the morgue of the Regional Hospital in Bolgatanga. The couple has been married for eleven years and has 4 children.
The police in Bawku have confirmed the murder and said they suspect foul play.
According to a source close to the family, a quarrel ensued between the couple last Thursday, which resulted in the husband beating the wife into unconsciousness, as a result of which she was rushed to the Bawku Hospital, where she died.
The father of the deceased, Mr. Abdullai Khasim, told our source that INUSAH Yakubu, who has since gone into hiding, has persistently been beating his wife, compelling her to sometimes run away to her family house.
According to some residents of Tensungo, during the latest incident, they heard the cry of the woman but felt reluctant to go to her rescue, because they were fed up with the continuous beating of the wife by the man.
They said anytime they rescued the woman and advised the man to stop his barbaric act, he would not listen to them.
The neighbours only went to the scene when the wailing and screaming of the woman increased and heightened, but their presence was rather too late.
According to some residents, the cause of the scuffle was the man’s alleged accusation that the wife had stolen his money.
The body of the deceased has since been deposited at the morgue of the Regional Hospital in Bolgatanga. The couple has been married for eleven years and has 4 children.
The police in Bawku have confirmed the murder and said they suspect foul play.
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Marriage Problems~
Problems usually occur between husband and wife first then it affects the whole family. Misunderstandings, differences, disputes, etc. will lead to relationship breakup, that is separation or divorce. The problems that happened are either personal or impersonal. Misunderstanding, low self-esteem and lack of respect in marriage are the main problems.
First of all, misunderstanding persists between married couple when one or both mates feels that they had choose the wrong person and begin to regret which trigger to unhealthy body and mind condition. Misunderstanding is often related to low self-esteem. One of the spouses might fear that the other half is being disloyal, deceptive or misleading and often get jealous, malice or hatred for each other or a third person are examples of low self-esteem. The imbalance emotions sometimes mess up the relationship.
In addition, when there’s respect in a marriage, the integrity of marriage as an institution remains intact and there probably wouldn’t be any divorce. Husband and wife must understand that marriage is a commitment to life. There should not be domination in a marriage but honour the person with sincerity. Some husbands or wives often have this ‘I’m always right’ mindset. This has made the situation worse and one of them might get tired of it and that usually ends on a very unsatisfying note.
Furthermore, husband and wife should always show interest to each other and accept the weakness because everybody makes mistakes. Do not neglect each other no matter how busy they are and at least once a day to compliment each other. Communication skill is crucial to make up a healthy relationship. Spend time and be open for discussion with one another so that all issues and disputes can be settled and resolved through a dialogue, not by personal opinion.
In a nutshell, the roles of the husband and wife in a family have been forgotten. Wife is like a neck when the husband’s a head. They must be together in order to function well. As we know that husband is to assume leadership in the home but should not be dictatorial, condescending the wife means they must respect each other. On the other hand, wives are to submit to their husbands and of course the husbands should respect her opinions. For the sake of the family and the relationship, to the respect add love. It is always Love that bonds and strengthen a relationship. Remember the reason a couple decided to get married.
First of all, misunderstanding persists between married couple when one or both mates feels that they had choose the wrong person and begin to regret which trigger to unhealthy body and mind condition. Misunderstanding is often related to low self-esteem. One of the spouses might fear that the other half is being disloyal, deceptive or misleading and often get jealous, malice or hatred for each other or a third person are examples of low self-esteem. The imbalance emotions sometimes mess up the relationship.
In addition, when there’s respect in a marriage, the integrity of marriage as an institution remains intact and there probably wouldn’t be any divorce. Husband and wife must understand that marriage is a commitment to life. There should not be domination in a marriage but honour the person with sincerity. Some husbands or wives often have this ‘I’m always right’ mindset. This has made the situation worse and one of them might get tired of it and that usually ends on a very unsatisfying note.
Furthermore, husband and wife should always show interest to each other and accept the weakness because everybody makes mistakes. Do not neglect each other no matter how busy they are and at least once a day to compliment each other. Communication skill is crucial to make up a healthy relationship. Spend time and be open for discussion with one another so that all issues and disputes can be settled and resolved through a dialogue, not by personal opinion.
In a nutshell, the roles of the husband and wife in a family have been forgotten. Wife is like a neck when the husband’s a head. They must be together in order to function well. As we know that husband is to assume leadership in the home but should not be dictatorial, condescending the wife means they must respect each other. On the other hand, wives are to submit to their husbands and of course the husbands should respect her opinions. For the sake of the family and the relationship, to the respect add love. It is always Love that bonds and strengthen a relationship. Remember the reason a couple decided to get married.
Sunday, August 15, 2010
Let's get STARTED on topic!
Speak of family, the first thing that appears in my head is LOVE. As we know that love binds a family and bound them together. The family is where children and vulnerable family members should be able to find support and safety. However , what will become to a family if there’s no love and appreciation? This is the main reason we choose FAMILY issue as our topic.
Sunday, July 25, 2010
jOyanna is HERE~
Hello~Souls out there...it's a pleasure having you here with me!^^
I'm the one and only Joyanna Choong Sing Li ever existed in this world...
Born in 1990 6th of May in Kedah but now a Penangite i am,studying Communication and Public Policy in UKM
I like books,music,movies,etc.Every Sunday i'll be serving in my Church and i really hope to
enlarge my social circle~
That's why I am a GossipSocial-er,right?
Feel free to be my friend, I do appreciate it~
May GOD bless you~XOXO~
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