Friday, October 8, 2010

Effect of Family Problems

Conflicts are a part of family life. Many issues can lead to conflict, such as marital problems, addition, generation gap, disability and so on. If the parents do not manage these conflicts properly, it will cause bad effects on the children. This is because the children are living in a unhealthy family and it may lead to the social problems indirectly. As we know, parents are busy for their business and will be 'pass' their children to the grandparents to take care since the children are baby,kindegarden and adolescence. So,they are lack of communication between their own parents, even grandparents. Besides this, sometimes grandparents are unable to teach their grandchildren when ask them a questions which about their study. In long run, they do not have good opportunities to find a job due to shortage of education since their parents are do not spend much of time to teach them.

Secondly, On the other hand, children like to try something new to get the attention from others because they are less communication with others. They are pretend themselves and not dare to talk with others, scare get hurt and no one is bother them when they talk. So, they are willing to do something 'special' to get the attention from others. They will be get into drug addition, become a gangster, smoking,go to the pub, etc. They won't think about the effect which will happen on them when they are involve in these 'activities'. They never know that their parents are worry about them and they are enjoyed of it. Furthermore, once they have the negative thinking, they will be try something more extreme, such as stealing, 'mat rempit', committed to buy drugs with their friends those who have the negative thinking.

Once they are involved, they can not detached easily. This is why nowadays the rates of juvenile crimes become increased in this society. Actually parents are play an important role of it. According to the newspaper wrote that,“A child is less likely to commit crime if there is someone, usually a parent, who makes a difference in his life.' Children are potential leaders in our future. Government hopes the young generation to innovate and advance the country in future. But, due to the social problems, its seems like hard to achieve it.

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