Solution For Marriage Problem Between Husband And Wife By Onion

Usually that's what happen between a husband and wife in the family, During the time of crisis, their trust will be tested as well as their endurance and mutual understanding on each other. In order to solve the problem between couples, we must first find the cause of the problem. What is the source of failing relationships then? If we investigate closer at it's core, it's the mindset of the couples.

1. They should set a common goal to be achieve together, such as bringing up children, holiday to certain countries, renovate their house and so on. In order to do so, partners need to develop the capability to make connections between facts by listening to your partner's opinion without presumption and understand his/her viewpoints from their stances.

2. Speaks out your feelings freely to your partner. What we are facing in Malaysia as well as South East Asia countries is that couples tend to keep opinions or feelings in their heart. They are more conservative and tried to solve problems by themselves. These may causes misunderstanding of your partner since he/she doesn't understanding what situation you are in and may accused you of false rumors. When comes to making a major decision,the dominant side(either husband or wife) may presume their decision are acceptable by their partner, which in fact the opposite in most of the cases. Hence, do respect your partner's feelings and makes adjustments according to your partner's need as well as the situation, and of course, includes both sides decisions in the commitment of family issues. Avoid unreasonable expectations and think of the bigger picture and the consequences when you make the decision.